In Her Own Words
About Her
So my friends would describe me as......well, a good friend. In fact, I really do focus quite a bit on my friends as they were all there for me in times when I needed them the most. I am a warm, loving person who does a lot of thinking - so that means I am respectful, honest, considerate, loyal and sensitive - and expect the exact same back from everyone that I surround myself with. I love my wine and food so really enjoy going out - doesn't need to be fancy - just yummy. I love sharing ideas and talking - love a bit of thought provoking banter. I do make people laugh and I enjoy laughing a lot - I make myself laugh a lot too. Shame, I must be special! I love to help people and so they tend to rely on me - which I love. Im just a normal genuine person really - and want to make the most of this life we have been given.
About Her Ideal Match
Someone who has their act together. What I mean is - they should have their career sorted out and know where they want to go if they have not got there yet. Whilst I have no issue with someone who loves going to the gym - I personally do not really like the gym - so as long as they are OK with me NOT going to the gym and rather doing nice country walks - then thats all good with me. I really want to be with someone who is going to put our relationship first. I will never expect anybody to let friends or family down - be there for your friends and family - thats important - but not to the detriment of our relationship. I really want to work together with someone to make a success of life - and so dont want to be the only one planning and making things happen. I am good at it - and I am capable - but it gets exhausting when I am the only one doing such things. My ideal match should definitely have a great sense of humour and preferably not so worried to make an ass of themselves in the name of laughter. Deal breakers: Touch one! Ok so lets see - love your mother but still put me first. Someone who does not worry about money and the future - and leaves that all to me - will just not work for me. Someone who works too much and does not have time for weekends away and Sunday cuddles. Someone who does not like animals is a big NO NO for me - I love animals. ...............what else would be a deal breaker............Someone who isnt clean and neat at home. I like to keep things clean and tidy and would go absolutely mad if I had to clean up after someone constantly.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Northern Suburbs (Durbanville), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
47 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
167cm (5' 5.7") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Occasional | |
Drinking: |
Regular Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
South Africa; United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
32 - 48 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
167cm (5' 5.7") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Goofy |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Funny; Intelligent; Moody; Outgoing; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Dance / Disco; Pop / Top 40 |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Romance; Self-help |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Movie Channels; Sci-Fi; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Adult; Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Cooking; Healthy living; Meditation; Shopping; Singing |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; South African; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time Online: |
I'm online on weekdays only |
Take Drugs: |
Not any more |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Tattoo(s); Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Long hair; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Algoa FM loveline: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
