In Her Own Words
About Her
Ek is n woestynroos, wat kan aanpas wat ookal na my kant toe kom, hierdie gedig oor n woestynroos beskryf dit pragtig:
Eenkant, stukkend afgebreek lê jy
hoe kry jy dit reg
om in stilte so elegant te ly?
Uitgeruk en afgepluk
"Waarom o waarom ?"
moet jou hart tog sekerlik soms vraend bely?
"Wat het ek dan gedoen,
om as prys te ontvang...
hierdie wrede lewens seisoen?"
Alleenwees is nie altyd sleg
kom wys jy almal gou gou reg
daar waar jou blaartjie eenkant lê en sug
want hier groei ek in eie reg
deur geen ander se opinies besleg
Alleen deur stormwind en bose weer
lyk dit soms jy het geen verweer
maar ń blye helaas gee toe
jy is toegerus met hoop en nuwe moed
gelaai met hallelujahs weer en weer
saam met nuwe blaartjie lewe
wat groei uit jou wonde uit.
Niemand is perfek nie anders was ons almal engele en beslis nie aardlinge nie, ek is ook nie perfek nie, maar probeer my medemens met die nodige respek te behandel. Value people in my life, that laid the corner stones in my life. Enjoy being involved in community upliftment, because not everybody is blessed with the necessary to survive. Animal and nature lover (plaasgirl). Good communicator. Vir my tel dade meer as woorde, woorde kan soms leeg wees. Goed versorg. Wye musiek smaak, geniet om mense te onthaal en te bederf. My vriende kring het al die grond en teerpaaie met my gestap.
“Only through our connectedness to others can we really know and enhance the self. And only through working on the self can we begin to enhance our connectedness to others.”
― Harriet Lerner
About Her Ideal Match
Moet omgee en empatie he met mense se seer, n oop hand he, vir mense wat nie so bevoorreg is soos ons nie. Goeie sin vr humor, nie net hoor nie maar n goeie luisteraar wees "It is not always about you". Goeie waardes en as kan dans is dit n bonus. Moet gemaklik met jouself wees en weet wie jy is! Om waardering vir die klein dingetjies in die lewe te hê is 'n gawe en sal great wees as jy so 'n persoon is.
“But one of the hallmarks of emotional maturity is to recognize the validity of multiple realities and to understand that people think, feel, and react differently. Often we behave as if “closeness” means “sameness.”
― Harriet Lerner
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria (equestria), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
55 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
166cm (5' 5.4") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Finance | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Pretoria (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
51 - 65 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
168cm (5' 6.1") - 203cm (6' 7.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Average | ||
Looks: |
Average | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Orange |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee |
Music Preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Dance / Disco; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Latin |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Non-fiction; Religious |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Reality shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama |
Interests: |
Gardening; Meditation |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Hiking; Horse Riding |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a month |
Dream Home: |
Eco home in the bush |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
At home with a good book |
Feelings about using Algoa FM loveline: |
Nervous; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |