In His Own Words
About Him
I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive.
It doesn’t interest me what planets are squaring your moon,
I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it or fix it.I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own, If you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human.
I don’t care if the story you are telling me is true.
I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself:
if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul:
if you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy.
About His Ideal Match
I want to know if you can see beauty even when it’s not pretty, every day, and if you can source your own life from it’s presence.
It doesn’t interest me to know where you live or how much money you have.
It doesn’t interest me who you know or how you came to be here.
It doesn’t interest me where or what or with whom you have studied,
I want to know what sustains you, from the inside, when all else falls away.
I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.
By Ohiah Mountain Dreamer
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pilgrim's Rest (Graskop), Mpumalanga, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
65 | |
Star Sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
173cm (5' 8.1") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Trying to Quit | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
45 - 64 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
153cm (5' 0.2") - 170cm (5' 6.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average | ||
Looks: |
Average | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Buddhist / Taoist; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Curly; Wild |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Minimal (Clothes are strictly optional) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Folk; Reggae |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Nature / Wildlife |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Adult; Comedy; Documentary; Romance; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Gardening; Healthy living; Making Music; Meditation; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Bowls; Camping; Dancesport; Hiking; Motorsport; Pool; Snooker; Snorkeling; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Doing household chores |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
My friends are my main family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Dream Home: |
Eco home in the bush |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Feelings about using Algoa FM loveline: |
Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
